Author: Matt
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When Easy Feels Hard: Reshaping Your Threshold For Struggle
We all have moments where something simple feels impossibly hard—whether that is starting a conversation, waking up early, making a decision, or holding a boundary. And in those moments, the internal dialogue starts: “Why is this such a big deal for me?”“Other people don’t seem to struggle with this.”“Am I just weak?” The answer isn’t… Read more
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The Top 3 Supplements for Better Mental Health
In therapy, we talk a lot about thoughts, behaviors, boundaries, and relationships—and rightfully so. But here’s the truth I share with every client I work with: You can’t out-talk human biology. Today, we’ll talk about 3 supplements for better mental health. If your body is depleted, inflamed, or off-balance, you’re going to feel it in… Read more
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3 Ways to Break the Cycle of Help-Rejecting Complaining
We’ve all had that friend, client, or family member who seems trapped in a loop. They complain about the same issue over and over, ask for advice, and then immediately dismiss every single suggestion. We refer to this, in my world, as the help-rejecting complaining syndrome. You offer ideas, encouragement, resources — and what do… Read more
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Trauma Isn’t Forever: How to Heal From Trauma
Trauma is one of those words that gets thrown around a lot these days—but here’s the truth: if you’ve lived through something overwhelming, painful, or deeply unsettling, and it’s still affecting how you think, feel, or relate to others, it’s worth paying attention to what I want to talk about today. It’s time to find… Read more
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Can’t Sleep? Your Insomnia Is Ruining Your Mental Health
When was the last time you woke up feeling truly rested? Like you could take on the world? Lets talk about the huge impact sleep has on mental health. If you’re like many adults, it’s probably been a while since you felt that kind of energy after a good sleep. Insomnia and poor sleep quality… Read more